Little Lessons

Don’t Fear the Four-Letter Word

Posted by Mark Fallon

Jul 26, 2019 5:01:00 AM


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"Wherever you go, go with all your heart." – Confucius

Last week, a couple of my friends were having a tough time. One was facing a health scare, and the other’s mother passed away. We shared some long phone conversations. Each call ended with “I love you, brother.” And the response – “I love you too”.

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Topics: inspiration, love, learning, support, growth, happiness, joy, little lessons, kindness, father, parents, compassion

Solo Tasking

Posted by Mark Fallon

Dec 14, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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“The shortest way to do many things is to do only one thing at a time.” – Richard Cecil

I’m very lucky to have a job that I love. Working with clients, teaching classes, speaking for industry groups, and traveling to some beautiful parts of our country. But as the saying goes, sometimes you can have too much of a good thing.

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Topics: support, challenge, time, team

Self-Improvement and Self-Acceptance – 2 Sides of the Same Coin

Posted by Mark Fallon

Jul 27, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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“Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn't worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” – Louise L. Hay

Readers of this blog understand my commitment to life-long self-improvement. Whether it’s expanding my knowledge through reading books, or my past efforts as a runner, or my current rehabilitation  after surgery. More importantly, through the lessons and love shared by friends, I try to become better at providing support and understanding for the people in my life.

I also accept being me – just as I am.

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Topics: love, support, growth, little lessons

Facing the Unknown

Posted by Mark Fallon

Jul 13, 2018 5:01:00 AM


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"If you see ten troubles coming down the road, you can be sure that nine will run into the ditch before they reach you." - Calvin Coolidge

In a world of uncertainty, many of us feel overwhelmed by the challenges around us – real or imagined. Will we have a job next month? Is the small repair on the house a symptom of a larger expense we can’t afford? With so many personal and professional responsibilities filling up our calendar, is there room for ourselves?

The list goes on.

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Topics: love, fear, support, positive, future

Three Canes – Three Lessons

Posted by Mark Fallon

Jun 22, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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"I am still learning.” – Michelangelo

It wasn’t something I planned, becoming the owner of 3 different canes. There was no intentional collecting – one’s an heirloom, one’s an essential aid, and the other was a gift. My current situation brought them together, and each one brought its own little lesson.

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Topics: support, challenge, little lessons, kindness

It’s Okay to Be Human

Posted by Mark Fallon

May 25, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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“I think we all have empathy. We may not have enough courage to display it.” – Maya Angelou

In a few days, I’ll be having total hip replacement surgery.

I’m nervous about it.

My rational mind knows that I will probably be fine. I have a good doctor. I will be having surgery in a good hospital associated with a good medical school. I am covered by decent health insurance. I know that I must have the surgery to end the pain and prevent more damage to my body.

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Topics: love, fear, support, listen, emotions

The Opening Act

Posted by Mark Fallon

Apr 13, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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“Help others achieve their dreams and you will achieve yours.” – Les Brown

A few years ago, my wife and I went to a Joan Osborne concert. It was a wonderful evening with Joan singing some of her classics, some blues standards, and some songs she hasn’t recorded yet. Accompanied only by a piano player (and her iPod), Joan’s sultry and soulful voice still has the power it had in the 1990s.

The surprise of the evening was the opening act. I love opening acts.

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Topics: goals, dreams, support

Dusty Dreams

Posted by Mark Fallon

Feb 9, 2018 5:00:00 AM

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“If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.” – Flavia Weedn

30 years ago, this week, a doctor’s pronouncement meant the end to a dream. This month, it happened again.

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Topics: success, dreams, support, veteran, running

The Unintended People of Our Decisions

Posted by Mark Fallon

Nov 17, 2017 4:00:00 AM


“Few delights can equal the presence of one whom we trust utterly.” – George MacDonald

In 1975, I joined the Immaculate Conception Queensmen Drum & Bugle Corps. I had no talent, and had never played a musical instrument. For no particular reason, I tried out for the drum line, and was picked to be a snare drummer.

More than 40 years later, the boys I marched next to have become the men who I rely on for support and friendship.

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Topics: friendship, support, mentor

Grateful for the Lessons; Even the Difficult Ones

Posted by Mark Fallon

Nov 25, 2016 5:05:00 AM

"Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding." - Khalil Gibran

sunrise_run.jpgThis is the time of year when we give thanks for all that’s good in our lives. For many of us, it may be our job, our home, our family, or our loved ones. The moments of happiness we never expected, and never take for granted. We raise our glasses and toast to love and friendship.

Just as importantly, we should be thankful for the lessons we’ve learned. Perhaps we’ve discovered new methods for improving ourselves. Or begun to understand more about the world – near and far. The ways we’ve grown and become a better person.

While we don’t celebrate pain, we need to also give thanks for what we’ve found out though the difficult lessons. Loss, heartbreak, failure – simple words that carry so much meaning. Deep, personal significance that we don’t always share. And don’t wish on anyone else.

While I try and use the word “we” when writing these posts, in this case I don’t want to presume my feelings are the same as anyone else. Your loss may be too great for there to be a positive side. Your grief may be deeper than what I’ve experienced. I can only wish you peace.

My difficult lessons have helped make me a better person. Not being able to see – or talk to – a loved one who has passed away, I celebrate the memories of the brief moments I was lucky to experience with them. Tears mix with smiles as I share stories of days past. Muted photographs remind me to express my love to the people I’m with today.

Failures remind me to celebrate what has gone right, no matter how small. Being physically broken has taught me how much I need the support of others to heal and recover. And I learned the exact same lesson when my spirits were crushed. The pain may not go away, but it’s easier to bear because of someone’s love.

We don’t seek out suffering and sorrow. We don’t want others to go through physical or emotional distress. At the same time, we recognize that pain and loss are a necessary part of life. Through that recognition, we may find a way to further celebrate the joy that we experience today.

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Topics: love, support, thankfulness

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