Little Lessons

Choose Wisely

Posted by Mark Fallon

Oct 26, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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This little lesson occurred 10 years ago, in 2008. I share it today to honor my father, Bill and my friend, Tim. Saturday, October 27, 2018, would have been my father’s 94th birthday, and next month represents the one-year anniversary of Tim’s passing. I think of them often.

Recently, my father was telling a story about his boyhood. He and his brother had walked 5 miles to the next town to listen to the radio broadcast of President Roosevelt’s inaugural address. That’s Franklin Roosevelt, not Theodore Roosevelt (my father’s not that old).

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Topics: father, friendship, memories, little lessons, reactions, control, learning

Self-Improvement and Self-Acceptance – 2 Sides of the Same Coin

Posted by Mark Fallon

Jul 27, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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“Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn't worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” – Louise L. Hay

Readers of this blog understand my commitment to life-long self-improvement. Whether it’s expanding my knowledge through reading books, or my past efforts as a runner, or my current rehabilitation  after surgery. More importantly, through the lessons and love shared by friends, I try to become better at providing support and understanding for the people in my life.

I also accept being me – just as I am.

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Topics: little lessons, love, support, growth

Three Canes – Three Lessons

Posted by Mark Fallon

Jun 22, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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"I am still learning.” – Michelangelo

It wasn’t something I planned, becoming the owner of 3 different canes. There was no intentional collecting – one’s an heirloom, one’s an essential aid, and the other was a gift. My current situation brought them together, and each one brought its own little lesson.

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Topics: kindness, challenge, support, little lessons

Still Learning After All These Years

Posted by Mark Fallon

May 18, 2018 5:01:00 AM

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“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.” – Nelson Mandela

I’ve been in the mailing industry for more than 3 decades, attending national conferences and trade shows for more than 25 years, and being a presenter for the past 23 years. I’ve been there, done that, and seen it all. Or have I?

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Topics: little lessons, learning, time

No Big Wins

Posted by Mark Fallon

May 11, 2018 6:06:11 AM

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“Lessons learned by ourselves have a greater value than lessons learned through others.” – Wayne Antaw

Most of us have set goals for ourselves, or our boss has set goals for us. Some of those goals may be simple – lose five pounds, increase sales by five percent, or cut $5,000 out of the budget. Or, the goals may present a great challenge, and are what Jim Collins calls Big Hairy Audacious Goals, or BHAGs.

Meeting these types of goals will translate into what might be considered a “big win”. A bonus. A raise. Or, maybe a promotion.

But what is a “big win”? A bonus is nice, but it will only have a brief impact on your life. A raise is nicer, but even that impact diminished quickly, as we usually find a way to raise our spending levels to exceed our income. A promotion, especially if its significant, will probably have the most lasting effect.

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Topics: happiness, little lessons, reflection, improvement